The power of Verbal Fate

 

 

 

You can do one of two things when it comes to verbally speaking to someone. The way you talk to someone determines many things. They will either look at you in a discomforting way, or they’ll accept you for your kind words. I’m sure everyone has been in a situation, where you’ve had people talk to you both ways. You can make or break a person, but how they react determines if you’ll get the best of them.

Now, I’m not the type to allow someone to disrespect me. I’ve been told time after time, to never allow someone to come off as rude and arrogant towards me. I don’t need to be lectured on that, because I do admit to having anger problems. I can control my anger, but I’m the one that waits until you push me off the edge. Give me enough of the push and I’ll take advantage of the opportunity.

That doesn’t mean I’m bipolar, or the person next to me is. People like to mess with others for the satisfactory of their own esteem. I care about everyone, but when it comes to using words — It’s either peace or war! The best I could tell you is, don’t allow someone to bully you. When you don’t defend yourself, you give the world an opportunity to make you mentally suffer. That’s worst than a physical weapon stabbing at your organs.

verbal attack has the power to take life away from a person, only if it’s negativity. People are sensitive or may take thing to the heart. Than there are those (me) that speak life and positivity into a person’s life. I’ve been through much where I’ve been weak minded enough to allow a person to take my dreams away.

Today I changed that, because I realize that I’m only a human that deserves to live. I’ve never compromised anything of mines, to settle for the belittling of myself by another person. Make a difference by speaking positive to people, because there are people out there watching!

It’s about how you choose to learn —

Sometimes our parents can’t teach us everything. We need that one person that can support us and not just point out the bad sides of us, but the good side too. When you can talk to that best friend/soulmate/boyfriend or whatever, you can count on him for the help you need. I’m single and I don’t depend on anyone, but I know that the guy I’ve been talking to has learned a lot from me and I’ve learned a lot about him. He makes me feel that it’s okay to learn from a man and for things to be vice versa. The main idea, is that you work as a team to build a force that can’t be torn down by the people that don’t care about what you built. Don’t trick to use cement to keep things standing, because obviously if a tropical storm hits, the cement is going to be pulled up. Find something strong to stick to the each other.

Why The Fans & Support are so important —

 

 

 

I notice that there are a lot of artist, authors and movie directors that have thousands of fans. I understand that at a point in life, some of them may become annoying or groupies. It’s not the fact that it’s their fault, when they see good talent– they freak out!! I think these supporters and fans are the keys to success, after God because they buy your material and not only that, they read and watch it.

There’s all different types of fans: The obsessed one, crazy ones, cool ones, and the straight-forward ones. I love how they can purchase your stuff not just because of the person you are, but because of the things you write about. I guess you can put it in a way of a certain perception– If you be good to the fans they’ll be good to you. Our job is to pour out our life into these books, movies, and music. You have to go hard or go home, and either way it’s about that time in life that you deliver something to the world.

Fans and supporters not only pay the bills, they’re at almost every event that’s taking place. I have to say even though we may not know them personally. They are a damn good support system when you need inspiration and good words. I love fans that not only stays true to the star, but remains true to themselves, also. Things like that gets no better than a piece of chocolate candy! You never know who supports your work and really has your back until, you stand out on that carpet and gaze around. “Thank You!” you’re yelling at the top of your lungs, telling them how much they all mean to you. I don’t think that kind of passion comes from the checks, it’s the support they give. There’s always someone there to replace those that wasn’t bold enough to support you!